The One Product That Made My Box Braids Bearable


And a couple of other protective hairstyle-friendly products we recommend

For many black women, summer is when the curls go away and the box braids come out to play. Natural hair is wonderful and versatile and able to shape-shift if and when you need it to, but it’s also a hassle to deal with in the warmer months because it gets drier faster than usual. Protective hairstyles like box braids provide a much-needed reprieve.

That said, I never ascribed to the beauty is pain mentality until I got box braids for the first time. For those who have never had to sit through the five-plus-hours-long process, it’s as arduous as that time frame suggests. For one thing, you’re required to sit still for what feels like forever, which means you have to make your own entertainment. It's a long time to just stare at your phone. For another, not only are you bored, but you’re bored while a woman pulls and tugs at your hair. Ouch. And then even once you're up and out of the chair, you've got another harsh reality to face: Your braids will hurt for the first few days—like, really hurt.

There are a couple of reasons for this. Your head likely isn’t used to carrying all the extra hair that’s required for box braids. And, whoever braided your hair, likely did so very tightly on your scalp, so that the style would last longer.

All in all, it's a terrible couple of days, especially because there seemed to be no way to ameliorate the pain. All I could do was complain until either my friends got tired of my whining, or a couple of weeks had passed, and the style loosened up. 

For me, Shea Moisture’s ingenious track tension and itch relief serum was a saving grace during my first couple of braid days. The product's mini dropper allowed me to carefully squirt the shea butter, witch hazel, and peppermint and jojoba oil concoction directly onto my scalp, providing instant relief. I’ve even been using it weekly when I feel the urge to scratch my hair. It's simple to use, too. Just apply, massage in, and keep your complaints to a minimum.

Ahead are some additional products great for box braids and other protective styles. Beauty is pain, sure, but it doesn’t have to make you completely miserable.

Yes, you should still be washing your hair when you have box braids. Yes, it's very annoying to do so when that requires you to get them wet. This no-rinse cleanser is an easy work-around. It not only works to cleanse the scalp but will save you the hassle of carrying around pounds of wet hair all day.

Shea Moisture, Jojoba Oil & Ucuuba Butter No-Rinse Foam Cleanser, $9.97, available at Walmart.

Cardi B, Avril Lavigne, and so much more

Every weekend, we bring you #SOUNDCHECK—your destination for the best of the best new music that hit the web over the course of the week. Because you should always be prepared when someone passes you that AUX cord. This week's round features 21 of our favorite emerging and established artists including Cardi B, Avril Lavigne, Tacocat, and so many more. Turn up, tune in, and tune out.

"Please Me" - Cardi B and Bruno Mars
"Please Me" will pair perfectly with all of the Valentine's Day candy you just bought on clearance. Trust me, there couldn't be a more perfect time to listen to this ultra-'90s R&B track.

Head Above Water - Avril Lavigne
I'm honestly jealous of whomever Avril is singing about on "Goddess."

Tacocat - Grains of Salt [OFFICIAL VIDEO]

"Grains of Salt" - Tacocat
When I realized Tacocat was back, I literally turned around at my desk and yelled. It's a miracle.

"Can I Talk" - Caleb Steph
Caleb Steph's debut single proves that he's ready for the spotlight.

Betty - Betty Who
"You better recognize/ That you're wasting all my time" from "The One" is my new favorite response to every "photographer" on Tinder.

"Butterfly" - Kehlani
The only thing more beautiful than this cover art is Kehlani's voice.

SASAMI - Free (feat. Devendra Banhart) (Official Video)

"Free" - SASAMI feat. Devendra Banhart
I would have never predicted a SASAMI and Devendra Banhart collaboration, but I am 100 percent not complaining.

Rex Orange County - New House

"New House" - Rex Orange County
Alex O'Connor never fails to impress me with his soulful bedroom pop, and "New House" is no exception.


"Cuz I Love You" - Lizzo
Distorted guitar paired with Lizzo's belting vocals? Chills, literally. She did that!

"Heads Gonna Roll" - Jenny Lewis
Like if Stevie Nicks' voice met Father John Misty's lyrics.

"Get Well" - Donna Missal
Donna Missal tells me everything I needed to hear about breakups on "Get Well."

"Patient" - Monica Martin
Sultry and sweet.

"Whorey Heart" - TeaMarr
TeaMarrr's bouncy new song is an excellent roast of the kind of fuckboi we all know and hate.

"Ice Me Out (Remix)" - Kash Doll
Kash Doll shows that she knows her way around a beat on "Ice Me Out."

"Lips of Lips" - Tiffany Young
Definitely catch me driving around with my windows down this summer blaring "Lips on Lips."