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Remi Bader Turned 30 With A 50 Cent Gig, Caviar & All Her Favorite People

Thirty, flirty, and burlesque bumping and grinding.

by Chelsea Peng

Are you sick of our photo diaries yet? We didn’t think so — but this time, instead of going inside a Place Vêndome hotel room to get ready for Paris Fashion Week, we’re staying close to home and tagging along with Remi Bader, who recently turned 30 with a blowout burlesque bash at Chelsea Living Room.

It wouldn’t be very good journalism to delay mentioning 50 Cent’s performance much longer, which Bader called a “dream come true,” but there’s so much more from the spangly, sexy, high-low night to take in. Ahead, the birthday girl herself recaps her major-milestone celebration from top to bottom — with every espresso martini, Popeyes biscuit, and made-for-her marabou showgirl outfit in between.

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Doing emails during glam is very 30 of me, right? For inspiration, we had to channel the theme of the night (burlesque), so Frankie [Calire] did big, wild waves, and Natalie [Lageyre] did Old Hollywood classic vibes. I did get nervous about doing a bold red lip the first time for my party, so we last-minute changed up to a modern glossy lip.

Courtesy of Remi Bader
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Obviously had to start the night with a customized “Remi’s Dirty 30” espresso martini

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For food and decor, we were channeling things that are very “me,” so obviously, a caviar station from The Caviar Co was a must.

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Sofi, Sonia, and Nneoma definitely understood the burlesque-attire assignment

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CURTIS FREAKING JACKSON IS IN REMI’S LIVING ROOM, EVERYONE!!!

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Is there anything more iconic than Edina and 50 Cent? I think this was literally her dream come true more than mine…

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Honestly, I cannot think of a better performer for one’s 30th. I wanted to book him because he's iconic, but everyone was so pleasantly surprised with how much fun he was having, how engaged he was, and how great of a performer he is. He made my night even more special than it already was!

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Kozlow blessed us with some bangers on the violin while Little Fax The Machine was DJing. Everyone was loving it.

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It was so nice to celebrate with all my favorite people in one room. I love this [photo] of me and one of my best friends, Camille Kostek, who flew back from Switzerland to be there for my birthday!

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Was so happy to see friends Adrian and Nigel Sylvester came through!!

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Let’s be real — no matter how fancy the night, is we always need a good Popeyes moment.

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Time for an outfit change. My custom outfit is from Intimissimi and Undone by Kate. It’s giving “main character energy.”

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Thirty is the new 20. What an incredible evening. Here’s to another year of setting the bar for my birthday party even higher!